Comments on: 10 Tenets of Fighting Fair https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/ Empower. Inspire. Heal. Mon, 01 Aug 2022 22:04:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Jenifer Wheeler Walsh https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1547 Thu, 28 Jun 2012 02:43:41 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1547 Unfortunately, I am guilty of a couple of these at times. Always striving to work on it because I know how important this really is. Thanks for the reminder ♥

]]> By: Jenifer Wheeler Walsh https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1548 Thu, 28 Jun 2012 02:43:41 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1548 Unfortunately, I am guilty of a couple of these at times. Always striving to work on it because I know how important this really is. Thanks for the reminder ♥

]]> By: Debi Dritchas https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1546 Thu, 28 Jun 2012 01:25:15 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1546 I don’t fight. Never verbally and most certainly not physically. I don’t entertain the idea of it. I merely just walk away from conflict and let others do what they do. Not to say that I am not hurt or affected by it…But I rememer your article on Toxic people and have learned to seperate myself from them in the most loving and non confrontational way. Never saying a word to them about it, just stepping away from them, the drama and the situation. I loved what you wrote about fighting fair.

]]> By: Cynthia Occelli https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1544 Sun, 30 Oct 2011 16:18:54 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1544 A great reminder and you nailed the notion that all of it is useless without application. Thank you, Rickey.

Cynthia

]]> By: Cynthia Occelli https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1545 Sun, 30 Oct 2011 16:18:54 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1545 A great reminder and you nailed the notion that all of it is useless without application. Thank you, Rickey.

Cynthia

]]> By: Cynthia Occelli https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1542 Fri, 28 Oct 2011 18:15:49 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1542 In reply to Seb Zar.

Hi Seb – I often say, I love you that is a given, but I don’t like the choice you made. It is so important to make the distinction!

]]> By: Cynthia Occelli https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1543 Fri, 28 Oct 2011 18:15:49 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1543 In reply to Seb Zar.

Hi Seb – I often say, I love you that is a given, but I don’t like the choice you made. It is so important to make the distinction!

]]> By: Seb Zar https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1540 Fri, 28 Oct 2011 16:15:45 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1540 Indeed. Wayne Dyer used to advise to always differentiate the person's behavior and the person herself/himself, i.e. saying "I won't accept your destructive behavior, but I love you", instead of "you did this, you're a bad person". It's especially important with children as words program them. This is a very basic communication skill yet very few know about it.  

]]> By: Seb Zar https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/10-tenets-of-fighting-fair/#comment-1541 Fri, 28 Oct 2011 16:15:45 +0000 https://thebeautifullifeschool.com/?p=3154#comment-1541 Indeed. Wayne Dyer used to advise to always differentiate the person's behavior and the person herself/himself, i.e. saying "I won't accept your destructive behavior, but I love you", instead of "you did this, you're a bad person". It's especially important with children as words program them. This is a very basic communication skill yet very few know about it.  

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