Comments on: Why your love life stinks

By: Artysta LuLu (Luisa Padro)

Artysta LuLu (Luisa Padro) — Mon, 22 Dec 2014 15:13:50 +0000

I would have to agree with everything that you said. I too fell victim to settling for less just so I wouldn’t be alone. And I don’t regret it, because each relationship taught me very valuable things about what I REALLY want in a relationship.
The great news is I found him. And you want to know how? By following my dream to be an artist! He is an artist also (dancer) and I am a painter. We met at a dance competition taking place in a gallery! (Tell me that’s not the universe putting all the right elements together!)
And he has been the most supportive person of my passions I have ever encountered! I can honestly say that we add to each other’s lives, whereas in my past I would accomodate everything about myself for what I thought would eventually make me happy.
What’s so perfect about all of it, is had I not had such a terrible experience in relationships, I wouldn’t have had the intense ambition to make a life for MYSELF. And Now I have a life of fulfilling my dreams and a man who supports all of that! 🙂
Thanks for the amazing article! This will really benefit some women who need to read this!

By: ResurrectingVenus

ResurrectingVenus — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 19:34:00 +0000

In reply to anna. Thank you, Anna <3

By: ResurrectingVenus

ResurrectingVenus — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 19:33:00 +0000

In reply to Marla. Watching you ladies share and support each other is beyond amazing. I'm with you too, believing in your healing, and sending you love.

By: Marla

Marla — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 19:10:00 +0000

In reply to DJ. Thank you for sharing your story, DJ. Sometimes, it feels like I'm all alone in this, but then people like you share, and I know that it's not my fault. <3

By: Marla

Marla — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 19:09:00 +0000

In reply to Jen. Thank you, Jen. I agree. All things are a gift. For everything good or bad thing that happens there is a lesson. Some of those lessons are more difficult than others, but through this, I'm learning to love me.

By: anna

anna — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 18:34:00 +0000

I’m going to read you 🙂 and get that fab journal to docunent my biggest journey yet. Because I want it and no shabby half decent one will do.
Amazing post-thabk you!

By: Jen

Jen — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 10:28:00 +0000

In reply to Marla. Marta and DJ: sorry you had to got thought this but I'm of the belief when your life transitions (cancer) it's to help your release what is toxic. The universe is always conspiring with us to heal and when something is life is toxic, the universe will provide what's needed to be whole. Disease is this sense is a gift if you so chose to see it that way. Getting rid of these horrible men was needed. They prob contributed to the stressed that manifested your diseases.

By: DJ

DJ — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 06:10:00 +0000

In reply to Marla. I had lung cancer and my bf did the same to me except he first abused me and treated me like shit starting one week after my thorocotomy. he couldnt handle my healing. Those guys dont deserve to be anywhere near survivors like us!! I wish you all the best!!

By: Marla

Marla — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 04:20:00 +0000

I am having a bilateral mastectomy on Tuesday. 3 days after my cancer diagnosis, my fiance left me, because it was all “too much for him to handle.” I am learning that it’s not my body that makes me whole, and it’s not another person. I am investing in life by going on adventures (hiking, concerts, travel), taking care of myself (exercising, eating right, meditating), and loving every moment of every day.

By: Colleen

Colleen — Sun, 11 May 2014 04:13:00 +0000

I have just begun investing in myself by taking up Belly dancing – i must say i would recommend it for anyone!!! it makes me feel more alive and comfortable in my body not to mention sexy 🙂 And i have just begun to study again for a career change. Im trying to treat myself more gently from now on

By: Sin

Sin — Sat, 10 May 2014 17:03:00 +0000

Wow that read was at the perfect time. I have had a massive crush on a man who has a girlfriend for teh past 6months, and have been making myself miserable. And the truth of the matter is,its because he has been the only man to give me attention in the past year. The fact that their are too many red flags, ie has a girlfriend,has been chasing me and giving me the attention, blowing hot and cold.. too name a few.. and the BIGGEST one ie he has a girlfriend already..

Thanks your right I have been putting myself down and thinking that I do not deserve any better.

NOW is the time for me to start investing in myself and putting myself on the throne 🙂