The deck is sort of stacked against having a wealth mindset. Schools teach you to be an employee or a specialist, how to fit within the structure. In truth, the wealthiest people don’t adhere to that teaching or structure. They create a different path, one far less commonly shared because it’s unique and seemingly less secure. Expanding your vision of what’s possible for you is a big step. We are our own limitations.

Hugs, Matt.

thank you Cynthia <3… I listened to it and will again … your story is always inspiring! it's the inner crack in my self esteem that this anxiety causes that is maybe just as crippling as the anxiety itself… I haven't hid behind a (was it a projector?) and that's because I freeze as well because I try to "not let on" what I am feeling… and yet that doesn't help, but neither does saying I'm anxious ugh.. lol I am working on it! I will be getting back to BLS now that summer is starting…

Brandie – If you knew that you HAD to change (imagine something crazy like – you must change this or peace in the free world will end), you’d find a way. Sometimes life implodes and we have no choice, but to take a different path and in time, looking back, we realize we could have changed on our own. There’s a solution here. Make the priority higher to find it. <3

Renee, I did an interview last week and shared the extreme fear and anxiety I used to experience whenever I spoke to anyone – listen here: http://lifemasteryradio.net/?p=4505

You CAN grow through this and be rid of it <3

Maybe start with a casual/part time reduction (hire some outside help if you have to). It sounds like your dad is working too hard (I know we ‘have to’ in our own businesses but we aren’t made to be dragged ALL the time). Maybe start with some course that interests you. Something that makes your heart sing or brings a smile to your face.
I was stuck for AGES trying to be ‘at one’ so I could hear the faint voice whisper to me what I really wanted… and it came down to me liking, no, make that loving, making movies. Yep – I went to film school just before my 40th birthday (my mum couldn’t say no this time!) Two years later, i’ve graduated and making my way again (feel like a school leaver all over again in some ways).
It’s project work and not a regular 9-5 gig, so now that I’m hearing the sound of crickets – it’s easy to backslide into scarcity (no arts funding, blah blah blah) when I ought to be thankful that I’m not a single mum anymore and actually I am supported even if I make up stories in my mind that I’m not because it doesn’t always feel that way.

I came across a great book (bit intense though) called The Energy Of Money by Maria Nemeth PhD. Joseph Campbell said, ‘How we do money is how we do life.’ Maria’s second book is Mastering Life’s Energies – as money is a form of energy. I got so much from reading that 10 years ago. The struggle isn’t about ‘getting rid of negative thoughts’ it’s more like changing a point of view so you see things differently, more clearly, like you’ve taken a step back.

Hi Cynthia…. thank you for this reply. I am just now seeing it, I believe, for the first time. I adore your work. I am taking steps, to be sure. If I could stop weeping, and get out of my own way for awhile, things would be a bit easier. I’m working on self forgiveness right now. I’ll take you up on your offer to be a part of the group, and begin posting there. I’ve been embarrassed to “come out!” Much love, Lori

Ahhh, what a gorgeous comment. Thank you, Beautiful One.

You are not a failure dear one, because in order to fail you must quit trying, everything else is a bump on the road to success. As far as what you are here to do, the answer is already inside you. I promise. Trust that this is true and let it show itself. Sometimes we look so hard that we miss what we looking for. Love to you <3