The more criticism of self, the lower one’s level of happiness and confidence. Create space between that voice in your head and your consciousness. Begin coming home.
On the surface, it appears we’re dealing thought alone. Yet, the source of these toxic thoughts bears noting because therein lies the power to transform the experience of LIFE.
The voice of negativity is the ego’s. Its goal is to survive and protect itself.
The ego manifests in the aggrandizement and criticism of self and others. It builds up, destroys, then rescues, protects and repeats the cycle. Through this insanity, it retains control.
Ending the reign of the ego comes through awareness, not resistance, judgment or criticism.
When one steps back and acknowledges thoughts of negativity, superiority or loathing, space is created between the Observer and the thoughts. This ability to watch the mind think, reveals that YOU are the Observer, not the mind.
Spend regular quiet time withdrawing from the changing swirls appearing outside of you and rest in the reality of your eternal self, the real YOU, unassailable and whole.
Watch the ego’s thoughts. Don’t think, judge or resist, just shine awareness on them. The ego dies not from assault, but from starvation.
The real YOU knows that only the changeless is true and that peace is constant.
When you catch yourself swimming in the ego’s pools of illusion, connect to your eternal self by asking: Who is it that is watching?
The more you realize that you are not your thoughts/emotions and develop the ability to stand aside and watch, the more space is created between YOU and the ego.
This is where love, oneness and timeless ease rule. This is home.
~ Cynthia
I really, really love this. The 21 day fast from negative self judgment can only be a good thing. I have read this through a couple of times and one sentence I am not understanding. "The real you knows that only the changeless is true and that peace is constant" What does this mean?
By the way I had to be very cognizant of what I was writing so I would not be negative on myself. Sentences that came natural to me were "I have had to read this several times because I never get it the first time:" "I am pretty sure I can't go 21 days, maybe 21 minutes"
This has also brought to light for me that I use ALOT of self deprecating humor when I am criticizing myself, outloud, to others. ALOT of humor. Wow, lots to think about today.
Nicki, you’re question is such an important one. I want to answer it well. I’m in traveling, but hold on for me. I will answer as soon as I can. Meanwhile, there’s a good discussion on Facebook about this topic: http://www.facebook.com/LIFEblog
Thank you for this fabulous question.
Bless YOU,
Cynthiia